“It’s beginning to look a lot like…”
Well… maybe not – or at least not the kind of Christmas we are use to.
Christmas in
Bulgaria has been different – contrasted to the Western media educed, economy driving Christmas we have come accustom to.
To some extent – that has been a good thing – avoiding all the hype and focusing on the true reason for Christmas.
However, we really find ourselves missing all of that
Christmas “buzz” – decorations everywhere, malls packed with people trying to find that last minute gift and sipping on a Starbucks Peppermint Mocha, watching all of those frantic people.
Its funny how those things you considered frustrating are actually missed when you don’t have them.
When you drive through Sofia it is hard to recognize it is Christmas time. (Other than the two new malls build by foreign investors). It is not completely barren of Christmas – you will see some lights downtown and small downtown shops will cater to the Christmas crowd – but you will not see it on the grand scales as you expect in the States. There are only a few Christmas lights in people’s homes and those who buy Christmas trees only do so a day or two before Christmas.
Growing up in the States, Christmas was always the grandest holiday – the presents, the family, all the hoopla – I just assumed it is that way all around the world. Although we know Bulgaria was under Turkish and Soviet rule for the last 400 years – I just assumed Christmas was still celebrated (naive American). Bulgarian Christians still celebrated in their homes, just not on the grand scale we are use to.
Last week we had a good friend, Maia, over for dinner. She is Bulgarian and is our age (31). We asked her how she celebrated Christmas as kid and to our surprise she said her family did not celebrate Christmas. She did not grow up in a Christian home and up to 15 years ago – Christmas was illegal to celebrate. For them and many other Bulgarians, New Years is the big Bulgarian holiday. I could not imagine growing up without Christmas.
Maia’s story helped me to understand the “lack” of Christmas in Bulgaria – they have never had the traditions of Christmas. I am talking about a lot of the extra tangibles of Christmas, as I do believe the Orthodox Christians did celebrate the birth of Christ – especially as a family, but they do not have a lot of the built up traditions of the season that we have become accustom to in the States.
We are not saying one is better or worse – just different. We realized we would have many different experiences living in Bulgaria. I was presently surprised how much more Bulgarians celebrated Easter than back home. I guess I am a bit disappointed to not see the same exuberance over Christmas. Then again, maybe they got it right.